The Difference Between a Porn Star and a Writer is “Thoughts…over a good cup of coffee”

Just who is TTBoy (The Writer) and TTBoy (The Porn Star)?

There seems to be much confusion as to my many posts here on Word  Being that I tend to write (blog and post poetry), why is it so difficult for readers to distinguish me from the Porn Star?  To some, the Writer TTBoy is considered to have honed in on his writing craft, while TTBoy, the Porn Star, has solidified his place in the Porn Industry.

TTBoy, the Writer, may incite some negativity from his writings, while, TTBoy, the Porn Star, may offer-up the same feelings for his work with “models” on film.  TTBoy, the Writer, has yet to find any articles posted online by the noted Porn Star.

As a more sedate reference, please refer to the book, “Thoughts…over a good cup of coffee,” and make your comments known about any demeaning or inflammatory subjects the book may entail.

Two completely different artists using the ‘same name’ may just be what the literary world needs to separate fact from fantasy.

Thoughts…over a good cup of coffee

Book Cover 1

How many times have you sat either alone or with someone else and discussed the most interesting and intimate topics over a good cup of coffee?  Chances are, in an effort to keep the conversation going you filled your cup again and again until you both were satisfied.  Then, you realized what brought you together.  Either with cream or without, there was sugar or no sugar.  No one discriminates, because of your curiosity.  That is exactly how friendships are.  Each individual feeds off the other by finishing their sentences, remembering the past better than anyone else, and even learn to agree to disagree by standing firm in their beliefs  – but understanding why the other came to that decision.  With discussions like:  death and dying, spirituality, sexuality, and coming-of-age…there is no clear answer even if you do know why.  Coffee drinkers unite in showing their delight in relaxation.  Taking the time to indulge in whichever form of caffeinated-bliss allows them to broaden their horizons with a little prose or rhythmic rhyme.  For a lot of coffee drinkers, nothing goes better with a cup of java than a withering candy stick.  Here is just a snippet of a poem from “Thoughts…over a good cup of coffee

With you

                                              In you

                                              I am yours

                                              I am you

                                           Oh, How I love the way

                                           You cough

                                           And my name comes out”



If one could choose three words to describe the contents of “Thoughts…over a good cup of coffee,”  Sincere.  Stirring.  Symbolic.  should be high on the list.  Each piece offers the opportunity to think outside the box and then jump back in.  The book isn’t so much an acquired taste, but a quality you would feel compelled to share.  A good cup of coffee is an individual taste.  It is the lover’s choice to dilute or alter the taste to fit one’s own palate.

Where would an artist be without a bit of social commentary?  With war, love, hate, forgiveness, and sorrow the common denominator seems to be Pain.

The pain must have been great

                                                    For it came down like a herd of angry men

                                                    But then it stopped

                                                    And I saw the sky smile again”



A good title can be a dead giveaway for the body of a poem.  Many titles, content, and desires are conjured and developed over a good cup of coffee.  “Thoughts…over a good cup of coffee” can be a book club of one or of a large group.

Publish Date:  June 7, 2013

Thank You for the Nobel Peace Prize in Literature nomination!


It should be such an honor to be considered for such a prestigious award.  Then again, there is even the Nobel Peace Prize for Poetry.  Poetry and Literature, both tell stories yet in different ways.  The only thing that separates the two is structure.  With Poetry, the intellectual looks for a pattern of iambic pentameter, iambic tetrameter, and even iambic hexameter.  You don’t even have to rhyme.  Then again, in Literature, one doesn’t even have to be a grammatical genius.  Even Editors make mistakes which still lead to millions of publications turning into best-sellers.  All it takes is someone with authority to write a stellar review for the author and a star is born.  Once the book is purchased, how often is it returned due to lack of substance of content?  Even the buyer is seen as an intellectual – who doesn’t want to challenge authority.  He or she will even go to book signings and readings to be a part of the  in-crowd in an effort to do their part for the cause.  Sarcastically, one may mention how shallow a particular story character was just to try and make a point of expressing utter disdain for a contribution that could have otherwise gone to aid the children in Ethiopia.  Still, presence means so much.


There seems to be a formula for everything.  Some say they can predict the next President, some have become expert at predicting the stock market, some have been said to know when the real estate market would burst.  Yet, many members who once held firm beliefs in their middle-class stature now hang their heads lower than the vagrant who had no shame peddling for a drink or a cup of coffee.  The middle-class could always point to where the ghetto was.  Now, no one wants to admit that their dwelling is located there.  In the era of the Haves and the Have-nots, it may even be safe to say the ghetto is dead.  In the 1960s, the Civil Rights Movement was the result of discrimination of one race of people and their segregation from another.  Many lives were sacrificed to pave the way for better future conditions of the Black or Negro (depending on which term they chose to use at that time).  During that horrific time period, that group looked up to a savior who they felt would lead them out of that turmoil.  Then, just at that turning point, that guiding light was extinguished – crushing so many hearts and souls to the point that many feared the end was closer to the beginning.  Conditionally, segregation was eventually ended.  Doors were opened for those who wanted to walk through them – and closed indefinitely for those who chose not to want to make a difference.  Time and time again, the next rising star on the scene would make a stance only to fade into oblivion soon after.  Fast forward a half a century, the Civil Rights Movement has reared its ugly head again; this time, though it may be harder for one group even with credentials to further themselves, not having does not discriminate. 


The Day the Ghetto Died



On the day the Ghetto died

Malcolm X bowed his head

While Martin Luther King stood and cried


On the day the Ghetto Died

Some sat and sang a hymn

Others just sat and lied

Lied about what the white man did for them


On the day the Ghetto Died

Little babies ran through streets

While their mothers bowed their heads and cried

To see their children with shoes on their feets


On the day the Ghetto died

The bible was opened even wider

To thank the Lord for a bond to be tied

And to pray for it to be tighter


In front of the steeple

I sat and felt a drop of rain

I looked up despite the people

And saw Jesus rejoicing over his pain


The pain must have been great

For it came down like a herd of angry men

But then it stopped

And I saw the sky smile again


‘Twas the Day the ghetto died

all the great heroes rose from the dead

to spread the knowledge they once had to hide

to the souls whose hearts now bled


They walked in hundreds of thousands

Wearing potato sacks

And chains and ropes

I can say this – for I was there

And in unison they sang the most beautiful hymn


It was one I never got to write

Because I could only listen in solemnity

It was a song that made me frown

 – one that gave me back my dignity


The tone sounded like it came

From the chain gang

But I couldn’t be sure if it was of

Rejoice or of pain


I walked around my beautiful home and cried

I looked and saw that I had everything money could buy

Then realized how little I had

But my ancestors had much pride



When I read this poem, I realize it doesn’t just relate to any one particular group of people.  Though  two Black leaders are shown, their significance is great and was even more important during their time.  The ghetto has died because it has been invaded by Life.  “They walked in hundreds of thousands/Wearing potato sacks/And chains and ropes…” what a riot, a rebellion…like occupying Wall Street or overthrowing a government.  People walking around their homes, knowing that at any moment they face eviction.  Never in a million years did they see their dream being shattered.  Never in a million years did they ever think they would be on the same sideline as the underdog.  Never in a million years would they waste a dollar or two to buy a lottery ticket.  Yes, there is a different kind of dream. 

For the millions of Americans who lost their jobs and had to go on unemployment, not only was their lifestyle altered but their way of life demolished.  Once the unemployment benefits ran out and the job prospects looked even more dismal, many abandoned all hopes of acquiring a legal means that would allow them to lead a sustainable life.  Why can’t someone just lower the corporate tax so that the outsourcing can stop?  Maybe, just maybe, all the crimes that no one seems to be able to agree that are actually hate crimes will stop if people have a beneficial outlet.  And there is no discrimination as to who does the crime. 

There is this book, “But what is life…Anyway?” that has nothing but poetry in it.  I’m surprised no one has written a review on it yet.  I’ll leave that to the intellectuals.  And along that same line, I saw Anna Deavere Smith’s “Let me Down Easy” and was completely shocked.  What that woman did onstage with the characters she created, I could only hope that my voice is expanded that way in my poetry.  It’s so funny how each individual role or piece could act as a separate message yet forming one central thought.  If only America could truly focus on what the Constitution says, “All Men Are Created Equal.”  Although color was left out of that formulated masterpiece, wouldn’t it be astounding if we could all become colorblind on purpose?  There is only one thing keeping us from that vision or thought:  Ego.  Whether it’s our ego or someone else’s ego… it’s still ego.  Ego rules everything.  It determines who is right and who is wrong.  Ego even determines who lives and who dies.  Ego is a mental death or a physical death.  Ego matters to the winner and the loser.  Ego never dies – it either expands or diminishes.  Ego takes the place of a podium as it stands in front of one’s name.  Ego is the Nobel Peace Prize before the “Thank You” from the recipient.

Literature still requires some literal or literate form structure.  There is no beat like Poetry; but a literal temperature that holds one’s interest long enough to remember the author’s name.  Those who nominate a candidate for a prize in Literature should at least be aligned with that presenter’s vision.  If they aren’t, then why tamper with that ego?  There should be a flow like a river.


 The River


Singing a song

that carries cool along a bank

of tears released by Heaven

and engulfed by Man

Created for pleasure below

where life is given again

and washed away

Smiled down on

When all ceases and admires

its healing powers

to fall in love there

and make love there





I will always remember the final scene in “Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner” when Spencer Tracy gave that memorable speech fusing the two cultures together.  He reminded Dr. Prentiss and his daughter, Joey just how much adversity they had to face based on their interracial relationship.  Though a good message for that situation would have been ‘Love conquers all,’ today that message has wavered.  There has become a melting-pot of love among the races.  And like the races, we even watch smart people or intelligent people fail, fall victim to schemes that were devised by people turned criminals that they believed in.  No one is immune to anything.  Again, the ego was played upon and preyed upon.  I, on the other hand, appreciate the nomination for the Nobel Peace Prize in Literature and/or Poetry no matter how egotistical it may sound.  What job it must bring to the one who took the time out of their busy schedule of duties to add my name to the list of prime candidates who probably have only be heard of by members of their inner circle.  What a magnificent gift it is to be able to join or unite beings of one thought to live harmoniously together and have that message forwarded on to generations to come.






To say, “Hello”


How many words do you need

to hear me say, “Hello?”

How many times do I have to

listen to hear you say, “Hello?”

What do I have to do

to let you know I am weak at times?

Can you hear my tears on

the phone?

Can you feel how my eyes

burn of pain?

“Hello” means as much as

it says

…though my silence could mean

that I’m being mean

A dedication was made to you

in a way that could never be


And, in case you forgot

the World heard it

Loud and Clear

To say I need peace and silence

slaps many when all I have ever

known was chaos

Then, he became my best friend

Then, I found my greatest mistake

Do you still need to

hear me say, “Hello?”

I may have to say it with my

head hung low

But just in case I forget

just find chaos

and you will find my voice

And in a brief, steady whisper

you will hear me say, “I’m sorry”

as you bid me farewell

…Though it will be only that

part of my living that is over


How many words do you need

to hear me?

Medicine and The Man

If I asked you where you were

 When you realized the acne wasn’t

the problem,

  What would you say?


If I asked you where you were

 when you realized the boys didn’t want you

But your sister would do

   anything for you.

 What would you say?


If I asked you where you were

  when your son’s Little League coach

said he would have won the MVP Award

 had he come to practice more,

  What would you say?


If I asked you where you were

 when your Mom left the gas on

after boiling water for her tea,

  What would you say?


If I asked you where you were

 when the last needle dropped from

your arm,

  do you need to hold on to it to recall?


If I asked you to feel something,


Like the beating of your own heart,

   Could You?


Medicine Man, Oh, Medicine Man

 Sprinkle and twinkle a different dust

  As only you can

Don’t let the stars and angels take him

  by the hand




Spreading possessions of self thinly

 across the land

Every precious would be memory

 Slipping away like falling grains of sand


Please die right now

  Medicine Man

I’ll Just Let Out The Doves

Walk along the street
A “Hello” to those I meet
Why can’t it be this way at home?
I often get a smile
Even if it’s just a little while
Lord, I know I ain’t in Rome

Some ask me how I am
I answer “Fine, sir” or “ma’am
I swear they look back as I walk by
Is it something on my face
It can’t be happiness – not a trace
I can’t see nothing from the cloud in my eye

What was it I didn’t do
that made you want to leave
Was it the space I didn’t give to you
Did I wear my love on my sleeve
I thought we were the perfect fit
as tight as a pair of gloves
Maybe this time when you get home
I’ll just let out the Doves

I didn’t know my beer
caused you a tear
Brought you fresh flowers for the vase
A laugh or two
between me and the crew
Boy what a slap in the face

when your girls would visit
I just split
Didn’t want to be in the way
None of them were single
But my boys loved to mingle
Too blind to see the games people play

A boy won’t ever be a man
for a woman who can’t understand
that True Love is above all other loves
Lust only lasts a minute
when deceit is thrown in it
Never knew a home could be a different
cage for Doves

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